<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post4804806361564828872..comments</id><updated>2012-01-18T15:04:37.174-06:00</updated><category term='psychological abuse'/><category term='honor'/><category term='infirmities'/><category term='perfectionism'/><category term='emotional scars'/><category term='FAQ'/><category term='humiliation'/><category term='grace'/><category term='free'/><category term='condemnation'/><category term='encouragement'/><category term='emotional abuse'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='performance spirituality'/><category term='guest post'/><category term='Duck Duck Goose'/><category term='forgiveness'/><category term='sparrows'/><category term='idolatry'/><category term='mosaic law'/><category term='Mary and 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Friend</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/feeds/4804806361564828872/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html'/><author><name>Hillary</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12999252628589295943</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-6580227722382381946</id><published>2012-01-18T15:04:37.174-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-18T15:04:37.174-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Great encouragement.</title><content type='html'>Great encouragement.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/6580227722382381946'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/6580227722382381946'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1326920677174#c6580227722382381946' title=''/><author><name>Live in Stereo-News</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10620443260912095615</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05905001038892421826'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-XZqrh2FBcTw/TvD6HwYLoII/AAAAAAAAAMo/vHhlmD8nlRk/s220/115331673957224.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-134413665'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-6099998226873440869</id><published>2012-01-08T16:20:11.145-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-08T16:20:11.145-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheering for you, Anonymous 8:51!  :)</title><content type='html'>Cheering for you, Anonymous 8:51!  :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/6099998226873440869'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/6099998226873440869'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1326061211145#c6099998226873440869' title=''/><author><name>Eliza</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10018415250035345075</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wrHFWYigXPk/TupdkUZ2W9I/AAAAAAAAAAU/QK4PaPDo9uI/s220/SNV30818.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-67832878'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-157402404776126024</id><published>2012-01-08T08:51:44.472-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-08T08:51:44.472-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you Hillary (and Lewis at Commandments of Me...</title><content type='html'>Thank you Hillary (and Lewis at Commandments of Men) for peeling back more and more layers for me, it has been a journey. While my story is not so immersed into the picture of the Patriarchy cult, but rather more  of Authoritarian parenting with the inability to let adult children go. I&amp;#39;m in my mid twenties and next week, I will be stepping out from under it all. Going to a safe place where I can get my feet under me and start making my own decisions with God as my guide. On one hand, I feel fortunate to have been able to do many things other girls have not, I drive, am self employed, have my own bank account, and other &amp;quot;freedoms&amp;quot;. And yet, in this journey I can&amp;#39;t help but feel a little &amp;quot;robbed&amp;quot; in my life. And now is the time, to proclaim my identity, as God made me, not what I look like in my family, persay. Oh, and I have a special guy who loves me just because I am me. It is the best. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/157402404776126024'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/157402404776126024'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1326034304472#c157402404776126024' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1935117412'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-6756625296233707060</id><published>2011-12-19T16:03:56.818-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-19T16:03:56.818-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Don&amp;#39;t give up, Ame!  :)  It does take years.  ...</title><content type='html'>Don&amp;#39;t give up, Ame!  :)  It does take years.  Do you have anyone in your life who is affirming on a regular basis that God is pleased with you?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(((hugs))) Naomi T.  You are so right! :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/6756625296233707060'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/6756625296233707060'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1324332236818#c6756625296233707060' title=''/><author><name>Eliza</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10018415250035345075</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wrHFWYigXPk/TupdkUZ2W9I/AAAAAAAAAAU/QK4PaPDo9uI/s220/SNV30818.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-67832878'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-875101630834231463</id><published>2011-12-19T14:00:20.403-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-19T14:00:20.403-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you. I needed this today. 

For those who ar...</title><content type='html'>Thank you. I needed this today. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those who are learning about healing: it&amp;#39;s possible. A long, hard journey, but worth every moment. Joy starts NOW. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/875101630834231463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/875101630834231463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1324324820403#c875101630834231463' title=''/><author><name>Naomi T.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02998747324631030012</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10666728374420778714'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Xw0OpopV4II/TnbEntPIenI/AAAAAAAABjI/sSJzNLnyTXY/s220/nj-085-L.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-898964891'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-3460744909115242529</id><published>2011-12-17T13:06:01.515-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-17T13:06:01.515-06:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;quot;He is not the vindictive, always frowning an...</title><content type='html'>&amp;quot;He is not the vindictive, always frowning and upset God that you were taught He was. He smiles at you with unconditional love and acceptance of who you are right now. He longs to comfort you. He can’t wait for the time when you discover His true character and know that He is compassionate and kind and merciful and full of grace. He is willing to win your trust; He won’t demand it.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;even with all the yeas of work, i wish this wasn&amp;#39;t still so difficult to believe.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/3460744909115242529'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/3460744909115242529'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1324148761515#c3460744909115242529' title=''/><author><name>Ame</name><uri>http://www.blendingame.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1870071657'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-7890605871386179907</id><published>2011-12-16T16:25:26.080-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-16T16:25:26.080-06:00</updated><title type='text'>(((hugs))) to both Anonymous!  Sometimes we have t...</title><content type='html'>(((hugs))) to both Anonymous!  Sometimes we have to fight for our freedom.  It is worth it, though.  :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/7890605871386179907'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/7890605871386179907'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1324074326080#c7890605871386179907' title=''/><author><name>Eliza</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10018415250035345075</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wrHFWYigXPk/TupdkUZ2W9I/AAAAAAAAAAU/QK4PaPDo9uI/s220/SNV30818.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-67832878'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-3197843545606434900</id><published>2011-12-16T12:33:02.394-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-16T12:33:02.394-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I was experiencing some frustration and sat down a...</title><content type='html'>I was experiencing some frustration and sat down at my computer and saw this letter in my inbox.  I needed to hear this.  Thank you for sharing!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/3197843545606434900'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/3197843545606434900'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1324060382394#c3197843545606434900' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-733722611'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-5601168391525137600</id><published>2011-12-16T10:33:35.042-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-16T10:33:35.042-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I needed this reminder especially today leading up...</title><content type='html'>I needed this reminder especially today leading up to the holidays and the family gatherings.  I often feel &amp;quot;odd man out&amp;quot; because of the decision to step away from the lies and into truth.  Finding strength and persuing my heart...thank you Hillary for caring about others in the stronghold of Satan&amp;#39;s lies</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/5601168391525137600'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/4804806361564828872/comments/default/5601168391525137600'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html?showComment=1324053215042#c5601168391525137600' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.quiveringdaughters.com/2011/12/letter-from-friend.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1002626508628633252.post-4804806361564828872' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1002626508628633252/posts/default/4804806361564828872' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-22006846'/></entry></feed>
